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发表于 2008-9-22 08:20:57 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
A Successful Relationship
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' q3 E9 Z( V+ N3 _! O7 R2 {: }9 m  A boy was born to a couple after 11 years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eye. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot about the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and fascinated by its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
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What were the four words? What is the implication of this story?% c. ^: B' }1 O* W% a8 w) t( G6 Y
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  The husband just said, “I Love You Darling.” The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiving attitude, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think. “A successful relationship requires falling in love many times — with the same person.”+ t( r8 d# |! y9 f" c
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 一对夫妇在婚后十一年生了一个男孩,夫妻恩爱,男孩自然是二人的宝贝。男孩两岁的某一天,丈夫在出门上班之际,看到桌上有一药瓶打开了,不过因为赶时间,他只扬声妻子把药瓶收好,然后就上班去了。妻子在厨房忙得团团转,完全忘了丈夫的叮嘱。小男孩看到药瓶走了过去,他觉得好奇,又被药水的颜色所吸引,于是拿起它一饮而尽。药水成份厉害,即使**服用也只能用少量。男孩服药过量昏厥,被母亲送到医院后,已经无力回天。妻子被事实吓呆了,不知该如何面对丈夫。心情紧张的父亲赶到医院,得知噩耗非常伤心,看儿子的尸体,望了妻子一眼,然后就说了四个字。 7 t! Y- Q$ u- h  w9 P6 r& \
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  一是这丈夫说了哪四个字?二是这则故事的主旨是什么?
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  丈夫只说了一句:“I love you, darling!”他完全出乎意料的反应是先发制人的(即反过来控制局面,而不被局面控制)。儿子的死已成事实,无论怎样也不会死而复生了,埋怨母亲没有丝毫意义。况且,如果当时他花些时间把药瓶收起来,这事也不会发生了。不应该为了这件事责怪任何一个人,妻子也同样失去了儿子。在那时她需要的只是丈夫的安慰和同情。这四个字就是他所给予她的安慰。如果人人都能用这样的观点来看待生活,世上就会少了许多问题。放下所有的怨恨、嫉妒、不宽容的态度、自私以及惧怕,你会发现事情的境况原来并不如想象中的差。“与同一个人相爱多次,你们之间才能建立起成功的关系。”

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发表于 2008-9-22 12:21:42 | 显示全部楼层
这样的丈夫很少,他一定非常深爱自己的妻子.
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发表于 2008-9-22 12:54:18 | 显示全部楼层
感人
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发表于 2008-9-22 12:54:39 | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 花蚂蚁 于 2008-9-22 12:21 发表
3 {: m! Q) [& G* H! K$ P这样的丈夫很少,他一定非常深爱自己的妻子.
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他也很爱的孩子
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